Affairs lead you nowhere! Better be alone than in darkness

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Thank you December

Never thought the cold could do better
Never thought my thoughts go numb
Never thought my dream would come alive
Never thought I could be living this way…

Oh, no no no I am not sad
December is going back
I am not
I am not sad…
Oh, no no no I am not depressed
Life is just testing me I guess
I am not
I am not depressed…

Let Joy Teach You – by Kate

Hi, this is the guest post shared by young and beautiful writer Kate Hurley. This piece of poem is about little things you need to observe to know what joy is. Allow yourself to experience the essence of joy and learn about life from it.

Let’s read her work together…

Let Joy Teach You

Let Joy Teach You – Kate Hurley

Yes, pain has taught you a thousand times.



The strength of your weary soul

A wild rose

Rooting down deep

Until it’s soft tendrils

Stretch up through the asphalt.

It hurts to push like that

But it’s what you have always done.



Yes pain has taught you a thousand times.



Sometimes a passionate clawing at the dirt.

A fierce determination to plant new seeds.



Sometimes a soft whimpering;

The brute of an army

To lift your body up from your bed

A fragile step towards the door

To feel sunshine on your face

When you thought there would never be sun again.



Yes pain has taught you a thousand times.

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In the kiss of a lover

Or the embrace of a friend

Hold on a little longer

Just like you have held on a little longer

So many times.



Let it teach you



When joy comes like a fury

In bread broken around a table with friends

Laughter like bullets

Piercing darkness



Let it teach you.



When joy comes in a whisper…

A kindness to yourself

As you look in the mirror

And you choose to see

The fading

As beauty etched from the strength of your days

Instead of a burden to bear



Swallow that joy up like water.

Let it teach you.



When joy comes in a letting go

Of controlling the past by regretting

Or controlling the future by worrying



When you see something beautiful

In this very moment

And you hold onto it’s gaze

Longer than you did last time

Enough to be here now

When you recognize that presence is not what you thought it was 

A moment that you can never hold on to

But the truest moment that will never end…

When that joy comes

Let it sift you

Let it change you

And let it teach you

Yes pain has taught you

A thousand times

Now let joy teach you

A thousand times more.

A Blessing for Those that are Grieiving

Let Joy Teach You

Yes, pain has taught you a thousand times.

The strength of your weary soul

A wild rose

Rooting down deep

Until it’s soft tendrils 

Stretch up through the asphalt.

It hurts to push like that

But it’s what you have always done.

Yes pain has taught you a thousand times.

Sometimes a passionate clawing at the dirt.

A fierce determination to plant new seeds.

Sometimes a soft whimpering;

The brute of an army 

To lift your body up from your bed

A fragile step towards the door

To feel sunshine on your face

When you thought there would never be sun again.  

Yes pain has taught you a thousand times.

In the kiss of a lover

Or the embrace of a friend

Hold on a little longer

Just like you have held on a little longer

So many times.



Let it teach you



When joy comes like a fury

In bread broken around a table with friends

Laughter like bullets

Piercing darkness



Let it teach you.



When joy comes in a whisper…

A kindness to yourself

As you look in the mirror

And you choose to see

The fading

As beauty etched from the strength of your days

Instead of a burden to bear



Swallow that joy up like water.

Let it teach you.



When joy comes in a letting go

Of controlling the past by regretting

Or controlling the future by worrying



When you see something beautiful

In this very moment

And you hold onto it’s gaze

Longer than you did last time

Enough to be here now

When you recognize that presence is not what you thought it was

A moment that you can never hold on to

But the truest moment that will never end…


When that joy comes

Let it sift you

Let it change you

And let it teach you



Yes pain has taught you

A thousand times

Now let joy teach you

A thousand times more.

What to do when your loved one shouts at you?

#anger #howtodeal

What to do when your people get angry or shower anger on you?

At times, people we love are going through a certain phase of life that they can’t or don’t want to share. And due to which, they easily get anxious. Don’t take them lightly and don’t see that situation as an insult to you.

You don’t know, but sometimes something bothers them and they can’t tell until you ask them. So, whenever you get this opportunity to show love to your people, understand their anxiety and ask what is bothering them.

You never know how much they wait for someone to ask if they are okay. Just prepare yourself if they breakdown in front of you instead of complaining of “being vulnerable”.

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Why We Are Meant To Be?

We always need someone in our life who just keep it moving without leaving. Who never gets bore of lengthy talks done by you, who always finds you when you are lost, who gives you space because he realises that you have a personal life.

Someone who just understands your silence and comfort you without saying “I am done with you”. Someone who never gets tired of loving you, even if you fail to love yourself. Someone who just see your flaws and still stay to kiss them.

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Why Closure to Any Ended Relationship is Important?

Every ended relationship deserves a closure, and one should achieve it with responsibility. You may think that you don’t need any closure but the relationship that has ended (even years ago) still waits for it; even when you don’t. You are not getting it, right? Let me share a story.

Old December

You know, this is how a life is

You born, live, and get old

Just like the December

That comes with whitey, snowy cold

Eats up the heat and

Make sun lovable for everyone

But, we forget that December too

Gets old

The older December gives more chill

Like an old dream which is still hard to kill

But as I said it before

You born, live, and get old

Just like the December

Someday you may forget the date

Memories will too fade away

Just like December

This shall too pass away

And guess what?

Sun will melt all that snow on the shields

Your mornings won’t be colder enough

Enough to freeze you

In the moment

Like it used to before

Just like December

But hey, December too gets old

It soaks up the bonfire, rum, words

And gives nothing in return

Except the cold, dew, and icy wind

To make you realize the worth of Sun

Love the Sun, love the warmth and when you do

Decembers will come and pass like they used to

The nights will be surely chilling,

But this time, with a little comfort, hugs, and kisses.

And, you won’t hate the old December anymore.

What’s wrong with your intimate relationship?

What’s wrong with your intimate relationship?

Intimacy is a different concept of act of love that goes beyond physical realm. It is more like having emotional and mental sense of well-being in a relationship.

“A deeper connection with a person that demands firm understanding and appreciation of the other person is known as intimate relationship.”

An intimate relation includes a certain comfort level that seeks to meet the requirements and needs of both persons. If you are open and honest to your partner, then congrats, your intimacy is great. However, if you cover up things and hide most of your deeds then you need to worry about it because your relationship lacks in intimacy. If we say intimacy, we don’t mean to talk about a single act. Intimacy is rather an irreparable commitment that doesn’t change with bad or good days, and found in the lows and highs of relationships over time.

What’s wrong – If you think just sex can save your relationship

What’s true – Intimacy is beyond the physical needs. While sex can make the relationship more beautiful, intimacy doesn’t thrive in a relationship that starves for deeper connection. In an intimate relationship, couple has to fulfil emotional and mental needs of each other.

What’s wrong – intimacy is a priceless gift for lucky ones

What’s true – When we meet our partner’s need, it’s a sign of a healthy relationship. However, intimacy is different thing that can’t be bought or sold. Lavish trips, expensive gifts, and romantic dates cannot define a relationship as intimate relationship. You can create intimate relationship and it’s completely your choice.

What’s wrong – Intimacy is a fairytale thing

What’s true- Intimacy is real. All relationships have their lows and highs and intimate relationship stay despite the bad and good time. Intimate relationships are present on earth and if you know the true intimacy thing, you can understand and feel it.

Signs of an intimate relationship –

  1. You both spend time exploring each other’s interests
  2. Both of you take opinion of each other when making decisions
  3. Both of you support each other’s goals
  4. Both of you accept each other completely
  5. No matter how hard the fight, both of you make it a priority to communicate
  6. Both of you get comfortable while sharing dreams, goals, and fears
  7. Both of you treat each other with respect
  8. Both of you understand each other’s signals

If your answer is yes to most of these signs then you have a good intimacy level.