Many people will give you their pieces of advice what to do for keeping your relationship long-lasting. Here, Free Spirit tells you what not to do!
- Do not believe in the quote “if you love someone set them free”
If you really love someone, never let them go at first place. We do fight; it’s not at all wrong if you are in a relationship and debating on the things. Just don’t let them go, because once you set them free, you lose all rights to keep them in your life. Ultimately, it completely depends on them to want you or not. And sadly, they don’t.
Nobody wants such people in the life who can quit on them so easily. Wear your jeans and tighten your belt and do whatever it takes to stop them. You will do it automatically if you really love a person. Don’t you?
- Do not believe what others are saying, trust your partner
Like every time, trust issues play major role in breakups. If you listen to your heart and shut people’s mouth, you will find what’s right. People anyway spoil happiness. Nobody is happy, everybody is just jealous in this world.
Just because other people misunderstand her, you don’t have a right to call her “gold taker”. She is more than that and you will realize it later and regret for life for abusing such a pure soul. (*if only you realize)
Don’t listen to the world, listen to your world.
- Do not make your partner feel so small in front of others
Respect comes next. You are having a doubt that she is having an extra affair and you are sitting next to your best friend to access her account to find out the truth. She is sitting in front of you, watching you silently. Her eyes are pleading to you to stop this and see the truth. But you, you love your ego and pride more and you think what you are seeing is right.
Notice baby notice, she is all yours. She comes to your place to celebrate your birthday from miles with a cake. Not everyone does that!
It’s all about little things that matter. She saw you helping out your friends when they had no money. If she did the same for her friend, don’t doubt.
Love is built with little things you do for each other. Build your love with strong moments by living them together with great intensity and pleasure. Because for long lasting relationship, you don’t really have to doubt, curse, abuse, or force your partner.
You don’t really have to celebrate love on valentine’s day! As Free Spirit believes, everyday is a valentine’s day if you are in love. A gentle hold will help you keep going together.