Love is an essence that you can’t buy, but you can truly afford it once you know about its worth. People often make mistakes while searching for love and most of the time they forget to keep it safe forever. First thing, you can’t search love, you instead get it. And once your love found a way to reach you, never show it a board of ‘U’ turn. If you will take the things for granted, nothing gonna be stay with you forever. It’s because no one has right to mislead, misguide, or misbehave with the one they love.
Win the heart with right attitude
A right attitude can make you win over the situations. You need to tackle every problem, every situation and every trouble with calm mind. Anger can spoil everything. And you may have heard that – “a person will not be punished for his anger, he will be punished by his anger.” It’s true because when you get upset, you simply have no idea what to say and what not to say. If you would get troubled with such situation, you have two choices to make. One is to growl with all the anger over him/her [advisable for those who think they have got the perfect partner. And you should know that perfect partner is just a myth]. Another one is just stay quiet and bear the situation and later with calm mind discuss with him/her. Trust me, this really works!
Self-respect and Ego are different
Self-respect is the thing you don’t want to compromise. And you should not. People will see you the way you see yourself. That’s true. Calling her bitch when you are making a mistake is not at all correct. In the same way being an egoistic person will not work. Grow up! If you make mistake, have guts to accept it and say ‘SORRY.’ Accepting your faults will not turn you a creature; it will rather help you in finding a better person inside you. Swallowing your pride can save you from the ‘looser’ title.
Feel the love, don’t search it
The love is enough to take a heart away. Feel it for once and see the change. It’s not like an air that you can preserve in a box. Love is a pure essence, a feeling, and a free spirit, that can change your world -your life. You can’t search it like a ray, but you can still take it as a ray of hope. Hoping that someday your love will find a way to reach to you! I know it’s quite filmy, but remember –
“Pyaar na haasil kiya jaa sakta hai, naa maanga jaa sakta hai, naa paayaa jaa sakta hai. Yeh wo ehsaas hai jisko sirf jagaya ya bhujaya jaa sakta hai”
So, keep this in your mind and try to feel the feeling of love; I know it seems beautiful when it is right. Trust yourself; trust the one you love; that exhales complications.
Don’t call them Ex’s – They have a name
I know this point is pretty irritating as no one seems happy to miss their ex. Still there are certain things that you need to remember. If you are a boy and you are reading this, you must be agree that there are times when you meet or talk to your friends; you can’t stop yourself while discussing all your cozy moments and, especially when they are in her list too. And that’s another way you give the people to call you a dumbass.
Calling her slut when you broke up is not a cool or funny thing. “Are you virgin” and the reply is “no” is normal, but stretching it and say “it happens many times” with a grin is not a thing you need to do. Where you guys met, what you did, what happened and everything related to both of you should remain with you and her. This shows the way you treated her. And people are good enough to know that if a person can’t give respect after break up, what they have then expected from him when they were together. They have a life and friends, so don’t ruin everything just for sake of your pride!
The same is applied to a girl. Don’t forget the time you were together. Don’t forget the mistakes you did or he did. Never be a part of a blame game because in the end, you will find hurting yourself!
I hope these few points will help you out! To read more about relationships, just visit What does a relationship demands?